Oh this is true

Oh this is true

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To be hopeful in bad times is not just foolishly romantic. It is based on the fact that human history is a history not only of cruelty, but also of compassion, sacrifice, courage, kindness.

What we choose to emphasize in this complex history will determine our lives. If we see only the worst, it destroys our capacity to do something. If we remember those times and places—and there are so many—where people have behaved magnificently, this gives us the energy to act, and at least the possibility of sending this spinning top of a world in a different direction.

And if we do act, in however small a way, we don’t have to wait for some grand utopian future. The future is an infinite succession of presents, and to live now as we think human beings should live, in defiance of all that is bad around us, is itself a marvelous victory.

howard zinn. 


(via bees-knees)

My past may have been dark, but the moments of sunshine got me through it all 😊❤🙏

(via psychotherapy)

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7 Mistaken Assumptions Angry People Make (Psych Central) ›

Very, very good read. 

Angry people feel that anger entitles them to let loose. It’s up to other people not to take seriously hurtful things they say or do. After all, they say, they were just angry. They don’t get it that other people are legitimately hurt, embarrassed, humiliated, or afraid.”

psychotherapy:

via Psych Central:

  1. They can’t help it. Angry people have lots of excuses. Women will blame their PMS. Both sexes will blame their stress, their exhaustion, or their worries. Never mind that other people who have PMS or who are stressed, tired, or worried don’t pop off at the world. Angry people don’t yet understand that they are actually giving themselves permission to rant. In that sense, they are very much in control.
  2. The only way to express anger is to explode. People who rage believe that anger is like the buildup of steam in an overheated steam engine. They think they need to blow off the steam in order to be OK. In fact, raging tends only to produce more of the same.
  3. Frustration is intolerable. Angry people can’t sit with frustration, anxiety or fear. To them, such feelings are a signal that they are being challenged. When life doesn’t go their way, when someone doesn’t see things as they do, when their best-laid plans get interrupted or they make a mistake, they simply can’t tolerate it. To them, it’s better to blow than to be left with those feelings. They don’t get that frustration is a normal part of everyone’s life and that it is often the source of creativity and inspiration.
  4. It’s more important to win than to be right. Chronically angry people often have the idea that their status is at stake when there is conflict. When questioned, they take it overly personally. If they are losing an argument, they experience a loss of self-esteem. At that moment, they need to assert their authority, even if they are wrong. When it is certain that they are wrong, they will find a way to prove that the other person is more wrong. For mature people, self-esteem is grounded in being able to put ego aside in order to find the best solution.
  5. “Respect” means that people do things their way. When another driver tailgates, when a partner refuses to go along with a plan, when a kid doesn’t jump when told to do something, they feel disrespected. To them, disrespect is intolerable. Making a lot of noise and threatening is their way of reasserting their right to “respect” by others. Sadly, when the basis of “respect” is fear, it takes a toll on love and caring.
  6. The way to make things right is to fight. Some angry people have learned at the feet of a master. Having grown up with parents who fight, it is their “normal.” They haven’t a clue how to negotiate differences or manage conflict except by escalating. Then they become very much like the parent they loathed and feared when they were kids.
  7. Other people should understand that they didn’t mean what they did or said when they were angry. Angry people feel that anger entitles them to let loose. It’s up to other people not to take seriously hurtful things they say or do. After all, they say, they were just angry. They don’t get it that other people are legitimately hurt, embarrassed, humiliated, or afraid.

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#angry

#people

#anger

#control

#immature

Epic ending! How I wish I did the same to the countless prank sms I received. 
Also, HANDROY… LOL! 

Epic ending! How I wish I did the same to the countless prank sms I received. 

Also, HANDROY… LOL! 

#funny

#notfunny

#stupid

#prank

#prankster

#sms

#text

#boo-ya

lesbiansnotlikejustinbieber:

femaleskissingfemales:

Imagine Me and You.

I do.

But that’s Queen Cersei!!! And she’s about to wring your neck here. 

lesbiansnotlikejustinbieber:

femaleskissingfemales:

Imagine Me and You.

I do.

But that’s Queen Cersei!!! And she’s about to wring your neck here. 

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#game of thrones

#queen

#evil

#cersei

#lannister

#lesbian

#imagine me and you

#movie

10 Amazing Life Lessons You can Learn from Albert Einstein.

10 Amazing Life Lessons You can Learn from Albert Einstein.

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#albert einstein

#quotes

#life

#lessons

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